So too is the relationship between the neshamah and the guf of Klal Yisroel. Every mitzvah that the neshamah wants to perform is controlled by the guf. The hands have to take action in order to wear the tefillin and to light Shabbos candles; the feet have to take the steps in order to go to bais medrash. If the physical body consents to the will and the bidding of the person’s neshamah then he can fulfill the mitzvah. However, if the guf does not cooperate, the neshamah will not enjoy any benefit.

A wealthy man, looking for a shidduch for his only daughter, was keen on a particular bachur who was outstanding in Torah and middos. The father of the bachur, however, lived in a distant city, so the rich man sent his luxurious carriage so that they could make the arrangements in person.

However, when the two men met, the father of the young man was unwilling to agree to the shidduch. The wealthy man then offered him a huge sum of money to win him over. “If you will agree to the shidduch now, I will give you 400 additional zuz.” However, the father of the bachur was not amenable.

The question that is obviously asked is: What reason was there for not disclosing the site of the Bais HaMikdash to Dovid? Mefarshim offer various answers. Some say that had Arnon found out that the Bais HaMikdash would be built on his land, he would have demanded a large sum of money for the property. Others suggest that the nations might have been motivated then to erect avodah zarah on that location in order to invalidate it as the future site for the Bais HaMikdash.

In discussing the makom hamikdosh, the posuk tells us (Devarim 12:5), “Ki im el hamakom asher yivchar Hashem Elokeichem – only at the place that Hashem, your G-d will choose.” The Torah does not state exactly where that place is. With respect to this observation, the Gemara in Zevachim 54 states, similarly, that when Dovid and Shaul were going to build the Bais HaMikdash they did not know the exact designation for its location.